The Boxer Briefings

The only thing that people really, really want is a pair of eyes to look into or ears to listen to them. They want to feel secure in them, to feel safe, unjudged, and loved for their worst and their best, but loved sincerely. When a person finds those eyes, they do all that they can to keep their attention. I hope to find in you, "the eyes and ears", a resting place for my point of view.

Sunday, January 08, 2006

My First One...yes, I came close to tears.

George -

You were loud, outgoing, funny, the class clown. You used your humor and your energy to talk about important topics that people were afraid to talk about in Eastern High School: gender, race, class, stereotypes and
prejudices. You were "popular" because of the volume of your voice and your comedy.

I was quiet, shy (maybe, but mostly scared). I thought similar thoughts about race and gender and stereotypes and class, but was scared. I didn't have the "popularity" power to open those discussions.

We were in Mrs. O'Keefe's 9th Grade AP English class together. We were both in a talent show one year. I opened the show with an immature (maybe, but I was proud of it) poem I wrote in English class - I was scared to read it on stage...

Right before the curtain opened you said, "Do you have something important
you want to say to all those people out there?" I said, "Yes, I really do." You said, "Well, tell them."

Those words helped me get up the guts and the energy to say what I wanted to say, and I'm still proud of myself for doing it. And still very thankful to you for saying what you said to me. You probably don't even remember saying it.

You are about to have your own "One Man Show" in Philadelphia. I'm sure this is just the beginning for you. You have always had important things to say to people. So I'm writing to tell you that I am proud to know you, and I just want to remind you, that as you continue to get larger and larger audiences, all you really need to do is "tell them."

I have just been hired as a Baltimore City Public School Art Teacher. I live in Baltimore City. I will be teaching in schools where the majority of students are below the poverty line, and are African American. I hope that maybe I can have you come speak to my new students sometime over the next year or so, as I get more settled into the job. I would love to have a person who I know come talk to them about what the real world is like - and what it's like to work as an artist who is just starting to "make it."

George, congratulations!
I don't know if I will make it up to Philly for your show, but I'm going to try.
If not, maybe you can bring it to Baltimore next.

Take care,
Julia Gumminger

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